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Change me.
Saturday, September 19, 2009 // 4:39 PM
爱与情是不一样的东西。
真正的爱,不是男女之间的恋情。
而真正的情,是来自好感,来自相处,在互动、互相感应下,才会产生情,有了情才有可能升级到爱。
爱情是付出奉献,不求回报。而情,是建立在有条件上的互动,或互相满足彼此的需求上。
很不幸的,很多人,都不是用[心]来和人感应,来和人谈恋爱,而是用[头脑]来设定框架和条件,来玩不合现实的妄想游戏。
人生就像钟,有十二个功课,不停地循环着,不停地学习和体验。
钟上的每一个数字,就代表一种功课,或许一点是家庭,两点是健康,三点是爱情...
人生是不停循环的圆,当你某一个功课没做好,绕了一圈下来,下一次又要重做,直到你做完功课,真正体悟到功课的意义,或者功课没做完,人生旅程已走到终点。
从这个实相来看,爱情只是人生中的某一个功课,只是,这个功课没做好,必然会影响其它的功课。
当你第一次经历爱情,无法一次就毕业,而且伤痕累累,不妨等时针绕一圈回来后,再一次去体验和学习。
只是,当你再次面临爱情这个功课,记得不要再犯同样的错,要从内在坑洞,去找出框架或错误认知的源头,找出那个让你一再犯同样错误、爱上同样情人的那个点,你才不会到死,都还无法从爱情这个功课中毕业。
这样的爱情,这样的人生,才会有意义和自在。
怎样的爱情 才会让我觉得有意义?
Maybe you need somebody different somebody who fits u like a glove.
Never gonna wait u to message me anymore.
Maybe I should not think so much.
I'm trying to be strong.
But where are u when I need u?
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