I wanted to discuss about how you and your partner spend money together. Firstly, do you buy things that she/he required? With willing? Or just tell her I'm broke, I don't have any money? Despite how much you love him/her, will u sacrifice everything and in the end you suffer with hunger because you buy her luxuries?
Think of it.
Yet my hubby told me that if I do that to her, she will never ever let me suffer.